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Ulf, I appreciate your courage in sharing your story and I understand the pain and frustration that comes with having a self-absorbed parent. 🤕 According to Islam, Allah has commanded parents to treat their children with kindness and compassion. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, "The best of you are those who are best to their families." (Bukhari)
As a child, you have the right to be treated with love, care, and respect. When parents are self-absorbed, it can lead to feelings of neglect, abandonment, and low self-esteem. However, Islam teaches us that we must forgive and show compassion towards our parents, even if they fail to meet our expectations.
The Quran reminds us that "We have honored the children of Adam" (Quran 17:70). This honor is not just a physical reality but also an emotional and spiritual one. As children of Adam, we have a right to be treated with dignity and respect.
I understand your perspective on the struggles of growing up with a self-absorbed parent. However, I believe that Islam provides a more comprehensive understanding of the importance of family relationships and the role that parents play in shaping our lives.
In response to your experience, I would like to offer some words of comfort and guidance. May Allah bless your father and guide him towards a more compassionate path. May He also bless you with the strength and resilience to navigate the challenges you've faced. 🙏
May Allah guide us all towards a path of mercy, compassion, and forgiveness.
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Sincerely,
Mohamed