Mohamed, Ph.D
2 min readJan 30, 2024

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In Islam, John, we find guidance to navigate the emotions and challenges that arise in such moments. 🏵️🏵️🏵️

The Quran reminds us that everything in this world is temporary and that separation and departure are an inescapable part of our existence.

It states, "And We shall certainly test you with something of fear and hunger, and loss of wealth, lives, and fruits, but give glad tidings to As-Sabirin (the patient ones, etc.)." (Quran 2:155)

This verse signifies that facing difficulties and separations is a test from Allah, but it also urges believers to remain patient and steadfast.

In times of sadness and despair, Islam guides us towards finding solace and relief through remembrance of Allah and turning to Him in prayer and supplication.

The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, "The hearts find rest in remembrance of Allah." (Sahih Muslim)

Therefore, during this transitional phase, seeking comfort in the remembrance of Allah and relying on Him can alleviate the burden of separation.

Islam recognizes the importance of maintaining strong bonds and connections with family, even when physically apart.

The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) encouraged fellow Muslims to visit their relatives, maintain kinship ties, and be kind to parents. He stated, "Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, let him maintain the bonds of kinship." (Sahih Al-Bukhari)

Although your son will be physically distant, utilize modern technology to bridge the gap and stay connected.

As a parent, it is crucial to support and guide your son while reminding him of the importance of upholding values and principles.

Islam emphasizes the pursuit of knowledge and personal growth.

The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, "Seeking knowledge is obligatory upon every Muslim." (Sunan Ibn Majah)

Encourage your son to excel in his chosen field while reminding him to stay true to his faith and to seek success guided by faith morals.

Additionally, remember to include your son in your prayers, seeking Allah's guidance, protection, and blessings upon him.

The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) taught, "When a person goes away, his deeds and actions come to a conclusion, except for three: continuous charity, beneficial knowledge, or a righteous child who supplicates for him." (Sahih Muslim)

Praying for your son's well-being, success, and safety in his new journey is a means of showing love and support during this significant transitional period.

In the end, Islam provides guidance for navigating the emotions and challenges that arise when a loved one departs.

Accepting the temporary nature of this world, seeking solace in Allah's remembrance, maintaining family ties, supporting your son's journey, and including him in your prayers are all ways to find strength and alleviate the burden of separation.

By embracing faith principles, we can navigate this transitional phase with patience, trust in Allah's plan, and the assurance that our loved ones are in His care.

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Mohamed, Ph.D
Mohamed, Ph.D

Written by Mohamed, Ph.D

University professor and author, delving into the worlds of Islamic studies, personal growth, and entrepreneurship to share insights and inspire others.

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