Here are some thoughts, 🏵️🏵️👇
One of the reasons for this is that, much like the wider society, we too have unrealistic expectations of what a perfect partner should be.
We often prioritize superficial qualities such as physical appearance or social status over character and faith compatibility, leading to potential incompatibilities.
The Quran reminds us that:👇
"And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought." (30:21)
This Quranic verse emphasizes that the goal of marriage is to find tranquility and comfort in our spouses, indicating that this tranquility comes from being with someone who is a good match for us, and emphasizing the importance of having mercy and compassion towards one another. ⏩⏩