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I appreciate your courageous sharing of your personal story and insights on the power of a single question in ending your marriage, Jennifer. Your writing is thought-provoking and relatable, and I commend you for your honesty.

In Islam, we believe that communication is a vital aspect of a successful marriage. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, "A strong bond of companionship is founded on mutual respect, kindness, and understanding." (Tirmidhi) This Hadith highlights the importance of building a strong foundation of love, trust, and open communication in a marriage.

From an Islamic perspective, it is essential to recognize that marriage is a sacred institution created by Allah (God) for the well-being and happiness of both partners. It is not just a union between two individuals but also a partnership between them and their Creator. When couples communicate effectively, they can work together to build a harmonious and loving relationship that pleases Allah.

Therefore, I would like to encourage couples to reflect on the questions they ask each other. Instead of asking questions that lead to hurtful or confusing answers, ask questions that promote mutual understanding and growth. Ask questions that encourage each other to be their best selves, such as "What are your goals and aspirations?" or "What makes you happy?"

Let us strive to create a culture of open communication in our marriages, just as Allah has commanded us to "Live with them in kindness and equity" (Quran 4:19). By doing so, we can build strong and lasting relationships that bring joy and happiness to ourselves and those around us.

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Sincerely,

Mohamed, Ph.D

May your love be blessed with divine guidance! 💕